Daddy Who?

I built Daddy Data for creators who want to make real money without losing their integrity. I translate the chaos of platforms, policies, finances, business systems, and audience psychology into clear, workable systems, so your creative practice can be sustainable, ethical, and profitable without turning into a grind.

My work lives where most people get uncomfortable: the economics of desire, the politics of visibility, and the data the drives it all. Because creators are professionals, not problems to fix, or cash machines for platforms to milk dry and then shadowban. What I build here blends hard data with creative instinct, turning the messy reality of sex, art, and labor into a system that works in your favor.

What I do:

  • Ethical Infrastructure: systems that make safety, consent, and transparency non-negotiable.

  • Creative Systems: workflows that protect your energy and your revenue.

  • Data Literacy: clear, usable insight into what your audience actually wants, and how to use it.

  • Brand Alchemy: identity work that’s coherent, magnetic, and profitable without losing your sexy or your weird.

  • Cultural Foresight: reading the shifts in sex, tech, and storytelling so you can stay ahead, not chase trends.

Daddy Data isn’t an agency, and I’m not here to coach you into conformity. I’m here to work with you on the map, the math, and the magic to build your own empire.

A man dressed in costume, resembling a mythical creature with curly hair, headphones, a red scarf, fur pants, and furry boots, stands on a stage with a black background and multicolored lights.

  • I’m a high school dropout!

    After being kicked out at 17 for being queer, it took me a… hot minute to get back to formal education. It took me until I was 30 to get back to it.

    Some part of that was definitely motivated by wanting my critics to sit-and-spin, but a lot of it was my strong love of learning—when, like for all of us, I can learn in the way that actually works for me.

    I got an Associates in both Education and Human Services at Monroe Community College, followed by Bachelors’ in English, Studio Arts (Photography), and Industrial and Organizational Psychology at the University of Rochester.

    When I learned that I could take 30 credits for the same price as 12, I kind of, uh, went nuts.

  • In my early 20s, I’m proud to say, I was the Executive Director of a state-wide non-profit called J.U.S.T. for Youth. We were the only organization in the state offering services to LGBTQ+ youth—my personal cell phone was the 24 hour crisis hotline. This was, FWIW, back when Google barely existed, so not only did I have no idea what I was doing, pretty much no one did. It was rough.

    I went from that to opening up my own management consultancy, specializing in non-profits and minority-owned entrepreneurships. I basically wanted others to not have to suffer from the learning curve that I had. Over the years, my specialties crystallized around:

    • C-suite executive coaching (mostly just telling them plainly to not be a dick);

    • organizational culture, especially in instances where non-profits merged to decrease competition for the same funding sources;

    • and change management.

    I also got to do some really fun things like pressure test interview processes for (rhymes with Shmacy Fenny’s) by going into various stores and interviewing under pseudonyms. (That’s a really professional way of saying I acted CRAZY during a lot of these interviews, to assess how management responded.)

    But for the past 10ish? years, I’ve predominantly been a high-level Project Manager in healthcare, finance, and tech. What that means can vary by company, or even person, but for me it mostly meant: do what needs doing to get the optimal outcome.

  • At 19, I was an escort. That started as a way to be not-quite-so-homeless, and led to my experiencing long-term human trafficking at the hands of my partner at the time. (This does not give me a negative opinion of sex work, on the contrary it gives me a deep understanding of the significance of autonomy and consent, and a strong impetus to ensure everyone has those things.)

    I’ve been a boudoir photographer for a decade, a burlesque performer for definitely-not-a-decade, and for a few years I owned and operated a cleaning company in NYC where men would go and clean in their underwear.

    Oh! I was in a porn once. Super weird experience.